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Women Respect Your Temple

If you’re not familiar with the word temple, temple is meant to reference your body. Your body is one of the most precious things you can and should protect. I’m not quite sure when “twerking” became a trend, maybe it was when Miley Cyrus started twerking at one of those awards a while back. Now every time I go onto social media, all I see is women twerking or revealing their most secret treasures to the world.  

I often hear women say:

Why don’t I have a man”?

“All men are dogs”.

“All they want is sex”!

Truth be told, not all men are “dogs” or just want sex. (I have five brothers, I feel like I’ve earned some say so on what men like and how they typically think).

Posting images like these:

It’s okay to love your body, but why degrade yourself to just your assets?

We all have one favorite body feature, but why does the entire world need to see it?

You’re more than just a peace
of meat.It’s no wonder why people believe there are no good men out there. As much as I hate to admit it,  men are not stupid. Men know when how to approach women, and they know which ones they have to approach with respect. If you’re constantly posting images with your most secret treasures showing, then how can you expect to find a good man? How can you expect for people to take you seriously?

I want every woman to know that she doesn’t have to degrade herself or show off her body just to get attention from a man. Please know that the attention you would receive from a man by posting these kinds of images, would not be the kind of attention you want. Who enjoys being called out of there name? Who enjoys being called a hoe or a slut? who enjoys feeling alone after the guy stops calling or messaging you in your inbox?

EVERY woman, no matter the color of their skin or their size is beautiful!


God loves you and wants you to respect your temple! You don’t have to take naked photos or twerk on social media to get men to like you. In all honesty, majority of men want a women who is conservative. They  don’t want a woman who shows her naked behind on the internet. If you take a moment to think about it, if you truly respect and love yourself, then why would you need to prove to anybody that you’re worth their time by showing your boobs or booty? If a man really wants you, all you would have to actually do is show you’re interested by the conversations you have.

I want you to know you’re more than the body parts you have, and it’s time to start showing the world that you have more to offer. It’s time people start respecting their temples. You don’t have to be naked to be liked. Just try having a conversation and getting to know someone for a change.

I want you to look yourself in the mirror and speak these words.


6 thoughts on “Women Respect Your Temple

  1. I absolutely agree, more women should be themselves and show more self respect, a real man likes that. Nothings better that a dignified woman!! Don’t let social media influence who you are!

    1. Exactly! I think if more men started voicing what they look for in a woman, hygiene maybe things will start to change.

  2. You have ppl that have low self esteem issues that they feel the need to reveal themselves to bring confidence. Yes it’s degrading for a woman to expose herself especially for social media & likes but they just don’t think about how it could affect ppl they know (if they care). Then it’s also crazy because while they exposing themselves they also complain about being single smh no man wants a female EVERYONE has seen or possibly had. It’s unattractive.

    1. I agree with you. I think if more men voiced their opinions about what kind of woman they want or what their expectations were, it would help replace that idea that men want someone who shows off her assets.

  3. What a great post! I am quite glad that I am not a teenager growing up in this world of social media – it certainly can not be easy.

    1. Thanks! I was born in 93 and it wasn’t as bad as it is now. Sometimes, I am lost for words at some of the things I see.

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